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Waiting for news you can’t control

Time moves differently when you’re waiting for something you can’t control…

Hospitals are strange places at night.

The hallways get quiet, the lights feel a little too bright, and time seems to move slower than it should.

Most people sitting in a hospital waiting room are there for the same reason.

They’re waiting for an answer they’re not sure they want to hear.

I remember sitting in one of those rooms late one evening, staring at a clock that barely seemed to move. Every few minutes someone would walk through the doors and everyone in the room would look up at the same time.

Hoping.

Wondering.

Trying to read the expression on a doctor’s face before they even said a word.

When you sit in a waiting room like that, your mind starts doing strange things. It imagines outcomes, replays conversations, and searches for some small sign that everything will turn out okay.

But the truth is, there’s nothing you can do in those moments.

No decisions to make.
No problems to solve.

Just waiting.

And sometimes that kind of waiting is the hardest thing a person can do.

Eventually a doctor came through the doors and called a name.

Someone stood up.

Everyone else in the room went back to watching the clock.

Because in a hospital waiting room, every person there is living inside the same quiet thought.

Please let everything be okay.

You sit there pretending you’re okay.

But nothing about that moment feels normal.

And somehow…

you’re expected to just walk out when it’s over.

If this resonated with you, you’re not alone.

Have you ever felt something like this?

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